tools/xenstore: add memory accounting for responses

tools/xenstore: add memory accounting for responses

Add the memory accounting for queued responses.

In case adding a watch event for a guest is causing the hard memory
quota of that guest to be violated, the event is dropped. This will
ensure that it is impossible to drive another guest past its memory
quota by generating insane amounts of events for that guest. This is
especially important for protecting driver domains from that attack
vector.

This is part of XSA-326 / CVE-2022-42315.

Signed-off-by: Juergen Gross <jgross@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: Julien Grall <jgrall@amazon.com>
(cherry picked from commit f6d00133643a524d2138c9e3f192bbde719050ba)